When empty is a good thing

in Motherhood,Priorities

I couldn’t see it then like I can now–hindsight brings perspective like nothing else–but the days and times of my life were way too full. Like a washing machine jammed tight with clothes and socks and towels, I couldn’t cram one more thing in if I tried. Nothing was getting the attention it deserved–not my kids or their education, not my husband or my home, and certainly not the meals or the ministries I served. Sure, it made it in the daily load, but just like the dirty socks crammed in with the towels and the muddy jeans, they wouldn’t get their due.

Until life got emptied. When God brought us to a new town with a new plan for all of us, my days were emptied of all the previous busyness. No more homeschooling. No more leading a homeschool group. No more giant house to keep. Empty of excess and that which ran me ragged, I relished in the new season of empty days.

A chance to look at my time and mission and finally achieve that which had only been a dream–margin. That beautiful empty space that exists to highlight what’s really important

There’s something about a blank page that makes you think long and hard before you write on it. Empty days bring reflection and a chance to be choosy, prayerful and thankful for the empty space and a chance to wash the dirty socks all by themselves.

 

I’m linking up with The Gypsy Mama for her fabulously fun 5 Minute Friday. You can too!

 

 

 

 

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Beth March 9, 2012 at 7:59 pm

Jumped over from Lisa Jo’s …. and I agree that at times we will serve on empty. So glad you have had a chance now to look at your time and mission in a prayerful and thankful way!

In His Arms, Beth
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Melissa Morgner March 10, 2012 at 1:30 am

Thanks for taking time to stop by and read, Beth!

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Chris March 9, 2012 at 10:12 pm

I so desire to have some empty space or some time to really think. I am running on empty and crying out to God for a solution. I am in the a place right now where I am being squeezed like that washing machine jammed up with clothes of all kinds. Ha ha, funny because that is how laundry is being washed lately. I used to separate my whites, towels, colors but not anymore….Everything gets put in together…..no time to separate. Phew!

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Melissa Morgner March 10, 2012 at 1:29 am

Chris,
I will be praying for you. I know these days feel like they will never end, but God has a plan. It’s OK to end a chapter and begin a new one. May these hard days make you lean heavily on Him and experience His love and grace in new ways. (((hugs)))

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mwc liz March 10, 2012 at 1:03 am

Visiting from Gypsy Mama’s blog.

This is a great post. =) It does take the breath and space to see how great the things that fill our time are.

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Melissa Morgner March 10, 2012 at 1:30 am

Thanks for stopping by!

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